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Trauma takes time and sometimes it can be short term or long term, depending on the context of the trauma. I wish people would be more understanding about this. Also, compounded trauma from an accumulation of life changing events can make it more difficult to manage for us trauma survivors. Just one trauma after another you feel like you are drowing. Seriously. Collier, I was experiencing one trauma after another after another after another all at one time. I thought i was never gonna get out of the mess, but with God's help i overcame it in alot of ways, but it took me years in therapy.
I admire you so much, Collier. We are survivors, but I look at it in a positive manner as we are champions and victors.
Don't worry about drinking coffee. I have a ice cream and chocolate, and Dr. Pepper addiction. But, I look at it as we have to love ourselfs to manage life and this is one way or for myself several ways for me to love myself ๐๐๐. No, but seriously we have to love ourselves and this is how we love ourselves.
Collier, you look great. Pay no mind to them and their questions. Be your own person and love yourself. Heck, I wanted a change and got my hair colored a real pretty pink. I know everyone was shocked, but I didn't care as I wanted to do this for myself. My sister said, "Oh my gosh, what did you do with your hair? I said it's pink ๐๐. Isn't it pretty. She said I quess." I liked it and got several compliments about my hair. I didn't care. Sometimes you do nice things for yourself, because you want to.
Nice show, Collier. I always enjoy your shows. Take care and God Bless.
I drink coffee in the morning cuz I like a hot drink I don't like tea (I know not typical for a brit) I've never felt the kick from caffeine so I'll drink coffee at 11 pm 3 am 4 pm. I also stopped listening to this food is good this food is bad this food only works if u do xyz because within a couple of years the infomati9n will change. I eat drink what I want when I want but not in excess
Hi, I work for a homeless charity in uk. People that are homeless, can come to our office and refer themselves to get a room in a shared house. These are people that are homeless because: they have just come out of prison, or they have had a relationship breakdown, or they have been abused. They donโt make me scared. They just need a bit of help ๐๐ป
Catastrophize is a great topic as a survivor of abuse as a child and adult.But yes sometimes i do this as well .I have to remind myself not to get sucked into that rabbit hole.I will go down it .I do my best to remind myself not to.Most of the time im successful with getting out of it.Thanks for sharing today
I read an article about kids growing up. Although there is less crime because of the internet parents are so scared, they donโt let their kids play outside by themselves till they are 10 or 12. Before internet kids were outside with their friends at seven years old. They learnt to solve problems, got into fight but figured out to deal with in. Stuff like that. It made them strong and independent. Nowadays kids are so protected by their parents they get upset about everything. I remember playing outside, parents had no idea where you were or what you did. As long as you were home for dinner.
They took me off Lexapro bc I had a rage attack and put me on Zoloft and that helped me until nowโฆmy GP is tapering me off them because my health has done a 180 on me ๐ and without pain, Iโm not depressed, angry, sad and Iโm so grateful for a second chance ๐ฅณ ๐โ๏ธ
Here in Australia ๐ฆ๐บ itโs so windy, but compared to you, itโs not as scary! Stay safe please ๐ hug up with Marisol so she doesnโt freak out!!! โ๏ธ Iโm praying for all of you! ๐๐๐
I missed you live , but a good thought provoking show . I realize i am guilty of retraumatizing myself and had to learn to redirect my thoughts. Hard at times but getting better at it! Going for walks on nature trails helps as well.
"Every journey begins 1 step at at time."
All the coffee talk โ๏ธmaking me crave some, by the way there is no wrong time for coffee!๐
BTW, you wear your hair however and whatever color You want sun kissed or otherwise, it's your hair! You are a good friend for driving your friend through that mess to LAX hope it was appreciated.
Lastly stay safe๐ and keep a thermos of coffee near! P.S Don't be so hard on yourself you look great!
re: pennywise, pound foolish, I couldn't agree more! My MO seems to be, if I can afford to throw a little cash at a problem, I do it. and I never regret it.
I was able to pop in for a minute and say hello to a few people when the chat was first opened 30 minutes before the Live but I didn't get to see the live. I never get off work in time anymore ๐. However, I am watching now! Will there be an unplanned live tomorrow ๐ค possibly ๐ค maybe ๐ค ๐๐๐๐ in all seriousness, Thank you so much for your hard work! You are so appreciated ๐! I hit another month as a channel member recently ๐๐. Stay safe!!! ๐ ๐๐ป
Trauma takes time and sometimes it can be short term or long term, depending on the context of the trauma. I wish people would be more understanding about this. Also, compounded trauma from an accumulation of life changing events can make it more difficult to manage for us trauma survivors. Just one trauma after another you feel like you are drowing. Seriously. Collier, I was experiencing one trauma after another after another after another all at one time. I thought i was never gonna get out of the mess, but with God's help i overcame it in alot of ways, but it took me years in therapy.
I admire you so much, Collier. We are survivors, but I look at it in a positive manner as we are champions and victors.
Don't worry about drinking coffee. I have a ice cream and chocolate, and Dr. Pepper addiction. But, I look at it as we have to love ourselfs to manage life and this is one way or for myself several ways for me to love myself ๐๐๐. No, but seriously we have to love ourselves and this is how we love ourselves.
Collier, you look great. Pay no mind to them and their questions. Be your own person and love yourself. Heck, I wanted a change and got my hair colored a real pretty pink. I know everyone was shocked, but I didn't care as I wanted to do this for myself. My sister said, "Oh my gosh, what did you do with your hair? I said it's pink ๐๐. Isn't it pretty. She said I quess." I liked it and got several compliments about my hair. I didn't care. Sometimes you do nice things for yourself, because you want to.
Nice show, Collier. I always enjoy your shows. Take care and God Bless.
Oh my gosh, sometimes I am willing to pay the extra fee so I don't have to get out of the car.
Gosh, I keep missing the lives.
I drink coffee in the morning cuz I like a hot drink I don't like tea (I know not typical for a brit) I've never felt the kick from caffeine so I'll drink coffee at 11 pm 3 am 4 pm. I also stopped listening to this food is good this food is bad this food only works if u do xyz because within a couple of years the infomati9n will change. I eat drink what I want when I want but not in excess
Hi, I work for a homeless charity in uk. People that are homeless, can come to our office and refer themselves to get a room in a shared house. These are people that are homeless because: they have just come out of prison, or they have had a relationship breakdown, or they have been abused. They donโt make me scared. They just need a bit of help ๐๐ป
Just found your channel and enjoying it. Stay safe through the bad weather headed your way!
Why no videos. Just black
Turns out it was man made fires in Mauiโฆ. Not climate change.
No guilt! Roll with it! It sounds like itโs helping you feel good! ๐ฅฐ
Catastrophize is a great topic as a survivor of abuse as a child and adult.But yes sometimes i do this as well .I have to remind myself not to get sucked into that rabbit hole.I will go down it .I do my best to remind myself not to.Most of the time im successful with getting out of it.Thanks for sharing today
I tend to see things catastrophically. Itโs a cognitive distortion.
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Also donโt know much about discord, but love the idea of interaction โค
Will be holding Terra very much in my thoughts as the anniversary of her attack comes up๐ซถ
I read an article about kids growing up. Although there is less crime because of the internet parents are so scared, they donโt let their kids play outside by themselves till they are 10 or 12. Before internet kids were outside with their friends at seven years old. They learnt to solve problems, got into fight but figured out to deal with in. Stuff like that. It made them strong and independent. Nowadays kids are so protected by their parents they get upset about everything. I remember playing outside, parents had no idea where you were or what you did. As long as you were home for dinner.
I worked in two different prisons & not one inmate told me he/she was innocent. They spoke about their crimes openly.
I can't carry a tune in a bucket. Therefore, I envy your voice
They took me off Lexapro bc I had a rage attack and put me on Zoloft and that helped me until nowโฆmy GP is tapering me off them because my health has done a 180 on me ๐ and without pain, Iโm not depressed, angry, sad and Iโm so grateful for a second chance ๐ฅณ ๐โ๏ธ
Here in Australia ๐ฆ๐บ itโs so windy, but compared to you, itโs not as scary! Stay safe please ๐ hug up with Marisol so she doesnโt freak out!!! โ๏ธ
Iโm praying for all of you! ๐๐๐
I would love an interactive site.Great to interact with the other mrmbers
I missed you live , but a good thought provoking show .
I realize i am guilty of retraumatizing myself and had to learn to redirect my thoughts. Hard at times but getting better at it!
Going for walks on nature trails helps as well.
"Every journey begins 1 step at at time."
All the coffee talk โ๏ธmaking me crave some, by the way there is no wrong time for coffee!๐
BTW, you wear your hair however and whatever color You want sun kissed or otherwise, it's your hair!
You are a good friend for driving your friend through that mess to LAX hope it was appreciated.
Lastly stay safe๐ and keep a thermos of coffee near!
P.S Don't be so hard on yourself you look great!
Nooooo I missed your Live!! ๐ฉ
31k so cool ๐ ๐. Stay safe ๐
Thanks ๐๐ป
re: pennywise, pound foolish, I couldn't agree more! My MO seems to be, if I can afford to throw a little cash at a problem, I do it. and I never regret it.
If you ever start an early morning podcast called Coffee with Collier, I'm down. I enjoyed your show today Sir. It was ๐ฅ๐ฅ
Coffee, coffee, coffee! ๐
I was able to pop in for a minute and say hello to a few people when the chat was first opened 30 minutes before the Live but I didn't get to see the live. I never get off work in time anymore ๐. However, I am watching now! Will there be an unplanned live tomorrow ๐ค possibly ๐ค maybe ๐ค ๐๐๐๐ in all seriousness, Thank you so much for your hard work! You are so appreciated ๐! I hit another month as a channel member recently ๐๐.
Stay safe!!! ๐ ๐๐ป
What is his brother like?
Hurricanes are unpredictable. So sorry the wedding was postponed.