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  1. Trauma takes time and sometimes it can be short term or long term, depending on the context of the trauma. I wish people would be more understanding about this. Also, compounded trauma from an accumulation of life changing events can make it more difficult to manage for us trauma survivors. Just one trauma after another you feel like you are drowing. Seriously. Collier, I was experiencing one trauma after another after another after another all at one time. I thought i was never gonna get out of the mess, but with God's help i overcame it in alot of ways, but it took me years in therapy.

    I admire you so much, Collier. We are survivors, but I look at it in a positive manner as we are champions and victors.

    Don't worry about drinking coffee. I have a ice cream and chocolate, and Dr. Pepper addiction. But, I look at it as we have to love ourselfs to manage life and this is one way or for myself several ways for me to love myself πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†. No, but seriously we have to love ourselves and this is how we love ourselves.

    Collier, you look great. Pay no mind to them and their questions. Be your own person and love yourself. Heck, I wanted a change and got my hair colored a real pretty pink. I know everyone was shocked, but I didn't care as I wanted to do this for myself. My sister said, "Oh my gosh, what did you do with your hair? I said it's pink πŸ˜†πŸ˜†. Isn't it pretty. She said I quess." I liked it and got several compliments about my hair. I didn't care. Sometimes you do nice things for yourself, because you want to.

    Nice show, Collier. I always enjoy your shows. Take care and God Bless.

  2. I drink coffee in the morning cuz I like a hot drink I don't like tea (I know not typical for a brit) I've never felt the kick from caffeine so I'll drink coffee at 11 pm 3 am 4 pm. I also stopped listening to this food is good this food is bad this food only works if u do xyz because within a couple of years the infomati9n will change. I eat drink what I want when I want but not in excess

  3. Hi, I work for a homeless charity in uk. People that are homeless, can come to our office and refer themselves to get a room in a shared house. These are people that are homeless because: they have just come out of prison, or they have had a relationship breakdown, or they have been abused. They don’t make me scared. They just need a bit of help πŸ‘πŸ»

  4. Catastrophize is a great topic as a survivor of abuse as a child and adult.But yes sometimes i do this as well .I have to remind myself not to get sucked into that rabbit hole.I will go down it .I do my best to remind myself not to.Most of the time im successful with getting out of it.Thanks for sharing today

  5. I read an article about kids growing up. Although there is less crime because of the internet parents are so scared, they don’t let their kids play outside by themselves till they are 10 or 12. Before internet kids were outside with their friends at seven years old. They learnt to solve problems, got into fight but figured out to deal with in. Stuff like that. It made them strong and independent. Nowadays kids are so protected by their parents they get upset about everything. I remember playing outside, parents had no idea where you were or what you did. As long as you were home for dinner.

  6. They took me off Lexapro bc I had a rage attack and put me on Zoloft and that helped me until now…my GP is tapering me off them because my health has done a 180 on me πŸŽ‰ and without pain, I’m not depressed, angry, sad and I’m so grateful for a second chance πŸ₯³ πŸ’•βœŒοΈ

  7. Here in Australia πŸ‡¦πŸ‡Ί it’s so windy, but compared to you, it’s not as scary! Stay safe please πŸ™ hug up with Marisol so she doesn’t freak out!!! ✌️
    I’m praying for all of you! πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•

  8. I missed you live , but a good thought provoking show .
    I realize i am guilty of retraumatizing myself and had to learn to redirect my thoughts. Hard at times but getting better at it!
    Going for walks on nature trails helps as well.

    "Every journey begins 1 step at at time."

    All the coffee talk β˜•οΈmaking me crave some, by the way there is no wrong time for coffee!πŸ˜…

    BTW, you wear your hair however and whatever color You want sun kissed or otherwise, it's your hair!
    You are a good friend for driving your friend through that mess to LAX hope it was appreciated.

    Lastly stay safeπŸ™ and keep a thermos of coffee near!
    P.S Don't be so hard on yourself you look great!

  9. I was able to pop in for a minute and say hello to a few people when the chat was first opened 30 minutes before the Live but I didn't get to see the live. I never get off work in time anymore πŸ˜’. However, I am watching now! Will there be an unplanned live tomorrow πŸ€” possibly πŸ€” maybe πŸ€” πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ in all seriousness, Thank you so much for your hard work! You are so appreciated πŸ’›! I hit another month as a channel member recently πŸ’ƒπŸŽ‰.
    Stay safe!!! πŸ’™ πŸ™πŸ»

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