twin #explore #identicaltwins #birthday Its that time of year again where we celebrate our BIRTHDAY!! We are celebrating a bit …
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Hi Martha.. I am so new to your channel. and to comment on this video I was going to your current to comment on the Shoe /kids statements but when I got there Your family was singing how Amazing God is and I was like uhmm .. and rushed back here to say this .. First, i hope you even see this, also hope it helps in the debate even a month later. however.. I am old enough to be your mother, and in Raising my babies who were close to God was raised in a poor family who strongly believed not to spoil your child/children.. they got Basic, sometimes Nike' but mostly just whatever Walmart had on sale because they grow so fast and i couldn't afford more… They are now young adults with kids of their own .. they have long ago learned the value of a dollar, are Educated, Spread love and kindness willing to help out a neighbor and /or Family they are blessed in most aspects of life .. well my granddaughter came along .. i am more able and wanted to spoil her just because of my past life so i did .. she was an only child it was easy to just give give give and she was in competition with her half-sister and brother who live elsewhere, and for a couple years she begged for Braids she begged for nails she begged for JORDANS .. she begged for KissME Jeans .. and this year her mother Gave them all to her .. her attitude changed from a sweet loving God Fearing Child to a little spoiled brat sassy she still loves God But her attitude does not Glow as she use to .. she now feels "entitled"! already making statements like " if i don't have them " ," but all the other kids " , .. you know my kids Never made those statements they appreciated what was giving them I hope this helps .. i am now in the position to start and try to walk backward and it's hard .. i don't know if she will ever be the same loving child again .. I just wanted to say this .. i know it was a very long story but it had to be said this way .. do not make the same mistakes and old lady did,i am speaking from Four generations if you include the difference of raising or growing up with my mother too .. me and my daughter and her child ..
I really loved the car conversation! I agree with Mary's concerns, and share that viewpoint. I think I even heard my voice and tone a couple times. 😅 But, having seen the video of y'all going back to school shopping, it shows that you and Gorden are instilling great values in your daughters. The reality is kids do become more self-conscious about appearance in middle school. The priority is ensuring they know their worth isn't dictated by materialism, and it's clear y'all are doing a great job of that. 🥰
I love a spirited, respectful discussion. We don't see that kind of discourse often enough anymore. Also, that "I'm sick a her" is every sister at some point. I should've hit my sister with that the other day instead of saying "shut UP"! 😂
I like the discussion at the end about materialism. I completely agree with Martha on this. I think there’s a balance and it’s totally okay to do what you can to protect your children and their self image, if you can afford to. Obviously it seems like you all have a home anchored on Jesus, so your girls know who they are and whose they are. But if they’re good kids, they shouldn’t have to suffer for the sake of proving a point. There’s dissonance in Mary’s comments because she does have a lot of designer things, and seems to be kind of more on the materistic side. I love and support both channels, but I think it’s also necessary to model that for your children if those are your beliefs. Can’t preach there’s “no value in material things” while driving a custom Benz. The message isn’t landing 😕
You both make sense. I agree with Martha that you should not subjevt your child to something they dont have to go through. I also agree with Mary that kids and people in genral should never feel like they have to because of peer or sociatal presure.
I’m a middle school math teacher. Our students do not focus on clothes and shoes. Getting our students in school is the most important. I’m so happy that our don’t care about designer clothes and shoes. They are more concerned about the basic necessities of life. 😊
Bless your kids as you’re able and feel comfortable. If you can shield them from bullying and unnecessary stress, do so. You can still instill in them gratefulness, love , respect and thanksgiving.❤️🙏🏽❤️
Martha. You are spot on. If you’re able , give the children what you feel is best for them and their growth. They can still be taught to be humble.❤️❤️❤️
Absolutely gorgeous. I'm glad you moved to Texas to be closer to your sister. It's great seeing the two of you together more often creating content and making memories. Happy Birthday, enjoy!Thanks for sharing. Blessings to you both always. 🎉
Buy the first pair, make ‘em work for the others. That’s my perspective. I totally understand wanting to belong piece. It’s important for you our kids to be emotionally sound in places they are not familiar with. Mary is a passionate auntie 😅
Mary takes it from me when you have your kids trust me it will be different and I believe Martha is not away just spending money on the kids with out shopping smart sometimes she see things and you just want your kids to have it
Hi Martha.. I am so new to your channel. and to comment on this video I was going to your current to comment on the Shoe /kids statements but when I got there Your family was singing how Amazing God is and I was like uhmm .. and rushed back here to say this .. First, i hope you even see this, also hope it helps in the debate even a month later. however.. I am old enough to be your mother, and in Raising my babies who were close to God was raised in a poor family who strongly believed not to spoil your child/children.. they got Basic, sometimes Nike' but mostly just whatever Walmart had on sale because they grow so fast and i couldn't afford more… They are now young adults with kids of their own .. they have long ago learned the value of a dollar, are Educated, Spread love and kindness willing to help out a neighbor and /or Family they are blessed in most aspects of life .. well my granddaughter came along .. i am more able and wanted to spoil her just because of my past life so i did .. she was an only child it was easy to just give give give and she was in competition with her half-sister and brother who live elsewhere, and for a couple years she begged for Braids she begged for nails she begged for JORDANS .. she begged for KissME Jeans .. and this year her mother Gave them all to her .. her attitude changed from a sweet loving God Fearing Child to a little spoiled brat sassy she still loves God But her attitude does not Glow as she use to .. she now feels "entitled"! already making statements like " if i don't have them " ," but all the other kids " , .. you know my kids Never made those statements they appreciated what was giving them
I hope this helps .. i am now in the position to start and try to walk backward and it's hard .. i don't know if she will ever be the same loving child again .. I just wanted to say this .. i know it was a very long story but it had to be said this way .. do not make the same mistakes and old lady did,i am speaking from Four generations if you include the difference of raising or growing up with my mother too .. me and my daughter and her child ..
Happy birthday may Jesus Christ bless you guys❤🎉😂
I really loved the car conversation! I agree with Mary's concerns, and share that viewpoint. I think I even heard my voice and tone a couple times. 😅 But, having seen the video of y'all going back to school shopping, it shows that you and Gorden are instilling great values in your daughters. The reality is kids do become more self-conscious about appearance in middle school. The priority is ensuring they know their worth isn't dictated by materialism, and it's clear y'all are doing a great job of that. 🥰
I love a spirited, respectful discussion. We don't see that kind of discourse often enough anymore. Also, that "I'm sick a her" is every sister at some point. I should've hit my sister with that the other day instead of saying "shut UP"! 😂
Happy birthday twins
I like the discussion at the end about materialism. I completely agree with Martha on this. I think there’s a balance and it’s totally okay to do what you can to protect your children and their self image, if you can afford to. Obviously it seems like you all have a home anchored on Jesus, so your girls know who they are and whose they are. But if they’re good kids, they shouldn’t have to suffer for the sake of proving a point. There’s dissonance in Mary’s comments because she does have a lot of designer things, and seems to be kind of more on the materistic side. I love and support both channels, but I think it’s also necessary to model that for your children if those are your beliefs. Can’t preach there’s “no value in material things” while driving a custom Benz. The message isn’t landing 😕
You both make sense. I agree with Martha that you should not subjevt your child to something they dont have to go through. I also agree with Mary that kids and people in genral should never feel like they have to because of peer or sociatal presure.
Love you Martha ❤🎉
I’m a middle school math teacher. Our students do not focus on clothes and shoes. Getting our students in school is the most important. I’m so happy that our don’t care about designer clothes and shoes. They are more concerned about the basic necessities of life. 😊
I love your glasses Martha!!
Mary's going to moody in her pregnancy. Maybe just the first trimester or not. Love you ladies ❤
Alot of people wears red lipstick 💄 every day. Guilty
I do the same thing Martha!!! 🙂(lipstick and no foundation). People tend to think I have on foundation though, when I wear that look.
O an again congratulations Mrs Mary 👶🏽👶🏽😉
Y’all are some beautiful young ladies ❤️💯An again Happy Birthday 🎁 🎁🎉🎂
Bless your kids as you’re able and feel comfortable. If you can shield them from bullying and unnecessary stress, do so. You can still instill in them gratefulness, love , respect and thanksgiving.❤️🙏🏽❤️
Mary out of touch!😂😂😂
Totally agree with you Martha!❤️❤️❤️
Phones are needed in this day. Emergency and safety first and foremost.
Martha. You are spot on. If you’re able , give the children what you feel is best for them and their growth. They can still be taught to be humble.❤️❤️❤️
Absolutely gorgeous. I'm glad you moved to Texas to be closer to your sister. It's great seeing the two of you together more often creating content and making memories. Happy Birthday, enjoy!Thanks for sharing. Blessings to you both always. 🎉
Mary stated how sweet and respectful your children are so, what's the problem. They should be awarded.
Let those children have that. Children should be able to experience nice things.
Because of Mary, I just had to have that Coach purse necklace. I can't wait to wear it.
Buy the first pair, make ‘em work for the others. That’s my perspective. I totally understand wanting to belong piece. It’s important for you our kids to be emotionally sound in places they are not familiar with. Mary is a passionate auntie 😅
Mary takes it from me when you have your kids trust me it will be different and I believe Martha is not away just spending money on the kids with out shopping smart sometimes she see things and you just want your kids to have it
I LOVE US Together! We had so much fun together! Can’t wait to see you when I get back from vacation 🤗😘
Y'all are amazingly beautiful together. Happy Belated Birthday! I just love you two.